Our productivity, efficiency and ultimately our success in our work and business are dependent on the mindset and motivation we carry within. And luckily I realised that at quite a young age.
In my high school, when I was about 16 years old, I had committed the mistake of opting for Science subjects under peer pressure when I really had no aptitude for the same. Students used to opt for the Science stream due to social conditioning to aim to become Engineers or Doctors.
I have come to realise that when I take on something I am not really interested in, I tend to not do well or struggle and become extremely unhappy and depressed.
Staying aligned to our joyful purpose is the key to our happiness, and is the only path to true success, and you will then eventually reach your outer success, and let me add, with no pressure! You learn to be relaxed and peaceful even during uncertainties.
Going back to my story, I had to get out of the mess of taking wrong subjects and complete the course by doing well in my final board exams. My confidence was low, I was confused and did not have any clear steps to take because I had no clarity of ‘why’ I wanted to do this, and even ‘how’, as I wasn’t even sure if I was capable of doing it.
I had no motivation. I also had emotional baggage that comes with fear of seeing oneself as a failure. I felt low because I did not feel happy at all and felt depressed.
I knew I could fail in the exams if I did not do anything about it. Luckily I found a small book of Deepak Chopra that my father gifted, called ‘The Seven Spiritual Laws Of Success’. There author talks about how you feel when meditating. He hadn’t really explained how to meditate in depth, it was just an introduction but I grabbed every word he said. He talked about reaching ‘gap’, a place of ‘pure potentiality’ he said.
Today of course I know how to get there with full steps. But without a teacher teaching it, it wasn’t easy as you are just experimenting and not sure if you are doing it right. I used to sit in silence and try and reach the gap that Deepak Chopra talked about.
The consequence was I was balancing my mental and emotional energies and focusing on what I wanted. I started affirming and visualising success for what I wanted to do and achieve. I started working smartly and I was guided to doing all I needed to do from my inner intuitive divine space, which gratefully somehow I had managed to learn by my self.
Finally within a few months, I gave my board exams. Initially I just wanted grades enough to pass so I could get to in College/University and study subjects I wanted to next, but surprisingly, I passed quite well with 75% marks.
It shows that when you correct your mindset and do the inner alignment with spiritual tools, you can succeed in anything. Imagine if I was doing the same process with subjects I loved instead at High School, I could have not only thrived more but been happier too. I later on did quite well in my College/University taking arts subjects, and I was adjudged as the Best Outgoing Student in the final year.
I do feel that tapping into the potential of inner conscious mind has been natural to me, and now of course I have developed that greatly over the years through my personal and professional experiences.
I am sharing this early life journey of connecting to my success mindset because I continue to align to my inner success field even today for my business on a daily basis, and also show my clients on how to do the same. Over the years I have followed only what I am passionate about doing in my business, and would let go of anything that I did not feel congruent with my purpose anymore.
And I know that following my heart and keeping aligned to my success mindset, has been the biggest reason for me doing this work professionally full time successfully since the last 15 years. I not only succeeded in achieving my goals but I enjoy and love doing what I do.
I have always found that the key to remain in the success mindset is through achieving mental and emotional balance as personal and business problems are usually intertwined. Achieving and practicing this inner balance is crucial to success in any field
𝑯𝒆𝒓𝒆 𝒂𝒓𝒆 𝒔𝒐𝒎𝒆 𝒐𝒇 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒘𝒂𝒚𝒔 𝑰 𝒔𝒆𝒆 𝒑𝒆𝒐𝒑𝒍𝒆 𝒂𝒓𝒆 𝒇𝒊𝒏𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒊𝒕 𝒅𝒊𝒇𝒇𝒊𝒄𝒖𝒍𝒕 𝒕𝒐 𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒄𝒉 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒊𝒓 𝒔𝒖𝒄𝒄𝒆𝒔𝒔 𝒎𝒊𝒏𝒅𝒔𝒆𝒕, 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒘𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒏𝒆𝒆𝒅𝒔 𝒕𝒐 𝒃𝒆 𝒅𝒐𝒏𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒏:
📍 You could be not aligned to your success because you are not really doing what you love. So you would need to figure out what is right for you or connect with someone who could help you.
📍 At times, you could be stuck and not move forward out of fear of failure. I would then ask you to connect to your bigger ‘why’, which is the reason why moving forward will make a big difference to your life and perhaps the world. And ask the most important question to yourself, ‘Would you be ok not doing and choosing this path and regret that you never focused on what would make you truly happy and fulfilled, or even regret wasting more years procrastinating?’
📍 You may not be able to get to your success mindset because of past fears, failures, limiting beliefs and emotional traumas. If you are stressed, worried, seeing the worst outcomes, you will eventually be depressed and may even be physically ill. In that space, success in outer world is a far cry. When we correct and heal our minds, connect to the divine energy within and higher vibes, then everything in our bodies and outer goals start aligning towards success.
📍 You may be simply lacking a daily routine practice to connect to your success abundant mindset! It is something you work and build upon. It is so important to have a process to align to your success abundant mindset within on a daily basis, so you can manifest your outer success from a place of joy, purpose and inspiration easily, naturally and joyfully.
I hope this has been useful to you. You are welcome to share your thoughts.
If you have been struggling to align yourself to the flow of success and right mindset for your business, and like to have a chat with me about my Divine Success Manifestation Accelerator Programme, please feel free to book a time to speak with me from this link- https://calendly.com/robinbela. I look forward to speaking with you.